Quite a few people reference the Urban Dictionary when it comes to terms they would like the definition on. In fact, another article here references several people having used it as a source. So I thought it would be prudent to go right to the source and get a direct quote.
Ashley: Maybe you shouldn’t wear that dress.
Lucy: Why not?
Ashley: It doesn’t fit right.
Lucy: Are you trying to say I’m fat?
Ashley: I’m not sayin’, I’m just sayin’.
by asheebee August 27, 2008″
“Trying to let someone thing you’re “not sayin'”, when, in fact, you most certainly ARE “sayin'”.
Ramona: Well, maybe a little.Beezus : Dang – for reals ?
Ramona: Hey, I’m not sayin’, I’m just sayin’
by TrudyS August 03, 2010